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Sunday, October 11th, 2009

Halloween Shopping

I’ve been a bit blue this weekend, maybe its the change in weather.

The Best antidepressant is fun times with Good Friends, so today I spent time with Christine & Rob – went shopping for their Halloween Party.

Living vicariously through them!

I Love Halloween and I Love all the decor that comes with it!

We went to Big Lots, Dollar Tree, Goodwill and The Spirit Store.

Christine & Rob were undecided about their costumes, but by the time we browsed The Spirit Shop, they had decided on a theme…. I’m not telling cuz I don’t wanna spill their “secret”, but I Know they will be Awwwwwesome!

Afterwards, we went back to their house, had home-cooked pot roast and played Qwirkle Cubes. I didn’t win, but Had Fun!

Got home feeling better.

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Sunday, October 4th, 2009

BOARDGAMING: Again

As I’ve mentioned previously, something that I like to do and which gives me much pleasure is to play boardgames with my friends.

This evening I had a Lovely fun time with Friends and Acquaintances, playing boardgames…  There was a group of people, enough for 2 tables of games.  There were some “Newbies”, so I played some of the “less” involved games with them – for an “easy” introduction.  The other table played the more strategic games.

GAMES PLAYED
* Caylus (others played)
* Khronos (others played)
* Race for the Galaxy (others played)
* Rummikub (I played, played three times)
* TransAmerica (I played)
* Qwirkle (I played, played three times)

I love boardgaming… and a glass (or two) of wine!

Wanna see what’s out there these days?

Check out BoardGameGeek – it’s an Awesome site!!

Wednesday, September 2nd, 2009

Vacation!

Labor Day weekend is coming up and I wasn’t sure if I’d be able to go down to Corpus to visit my Folks…

I got a Friend to check on the Pups all weekend

I’ll pick-up my 1/2 month of PB on Thursday

I’m riding to Corpus with Friends, Virginia & Dean on Friday, after work

Dean promises some Awesome Margaritas!!

Looking forward to a Nice Relaxing Fun Weekend!!!

Wooooooooo!!!

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Tuesday, August 4th, 2009

A Mustard Seed

This evening I stumbled upon the blog of a friend.  I never knew she had one.

Now, I know this fight is tough I am in, and I have been trying to be positive, but also – due to time lost for a misdiagnosis – I do need to be realistic.  Reality is that many do not win this battle, and lost time is a huge factor for survival rate.  I lost over 8 months…

Reading her candid words chilled me, coming from  woman of such faith…

“death and health issues where I battle the most at being a good friend. i’ve really been just trying to give this one to God but sadly His timing sucks alot with this. I honestly can’t think of but one breast cancer survivor in my life. I can quicly name four who didn’t get to beat it. So here we are again praying for a miracle but the faith is now less than a mustard seed size.”

Less than a mustard seed of faith

“I tell you the truth,
if you have faith as small as a mustard seed,
you can say to this mountain
move from here to there
and it will move,
and nothing will be impossible for you”.

So, Janna, I will carry a mustard seed… to remind myself to survive.

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Sunday, July 12th, 2009

BOARDGAMING: Boardgaming

Something that I like to do and which gives me much pleasure is to play boardgames with my friends.  It lets me “get away” to better times and forget – for a few moments – what I am going through.

I spent this afternoon and evening doing just that.  And had a couple glasses of wine to wash it down.  We met at Cafe Express in the Champions (North Houston) area.  It was a Great time.

There are so many really cool boardgames out there these days – nothing like the old games of monopoly, scrabble and Life.  No, the new games are interesting, stimulating and intriguing.

Wanna see what’s out there these days?

Check out BoardGameGeek – it’s an Awesome site!!

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Sunday, June 28th, 2009

Comments

It’s Tough writing this Blog, each letter I type is a reminder of my situation and the fight I am fighting, the fight I do Not want to be a part of, but I am… the fight that I Hope to win, the fight which I Might loose.

A fight in which I am not alone, yet I am very alone.

Sometimes it would be easier to forget and simply retreat into a cocoon of denial… but I can’t, I Need to write, I Need to feel that I am Somehow making a difference with my fight.

I Hope there are people who are reading this Blog, I have people tell me that they are, but I really don’t know.  I find it interesting to note those “friends” who have pulled away since my diagnosis… or those who “can’t bring themselves to read” my Blog because it’s “too difficult for them”.  Well, lemme tell you just how difficult this is for Me.  I’ll go through this nightmare without you.

I want to Thank those who have left comments… my Real Life Friends who stop by and take a few moments to leave me words of encouragement – Christy W, Crystal G, Amber H, Marianne M, Katherine R… people who I have met via online groups – Bridgette M… people who I never met, but who have gone out of their way to leave me a few words – Gina M, Karin W… and All the people who have donated money for my treatment and recovery and left comments of encouragement with their donations… yes, the money helps ease my financial stress, but it’s Not just about the money, it’s about the Comfort and Power of Prayer.

You all Have No Idea what your support means to me.  At this time, when it’s So Very Tough for me, I cherish each and every word you share with me.  They bring me Much Comfort.

When I come up here to write, and there are no new comments – which is more often than not – I seek out your words and re–read them for comfort.  If they were paper they would be tattered from use, tear-stained and imprinted with my gratitude…

Thank You.


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Saturday, June 27th, 2009

Baby Shower – Raquel & Neil, June 27 2009

Today was a rare day – something non-cancer related – YAY!

Today was a Baby Shower for Dear Friends, Raquel & Neil who are welcoming their first – a Baby Girl.  (Raquel is from Brazil, and her name is pronounced “Ha-Kell”, and Neil is, well – Neil  *LOL*)

To say that her pregnancy was a surprise is putting it mildly.  They are mid/late-30′s and as long as I have known them (about 5 years) they have maintained that they did not want children.  Actually, I personally believe that it was more Raquel, cuz I always thought I could see in Neil’s eyes that he would love a child, but he loved Raquel more and knew that was how she felt.

I know Raquel is concerned about the type of parent she will make, especially cuz she thinks she will be too strict.  But, as I told her, children need the structure, they need the boundaries and the limits – otherwise you end up with what you see so many children have become these days – pain in the butt, spoiled brats that you don’t want to have around.  That Little Girl will have Neil Wrapped Around Her Finger, so Raquel will be the one to keep them both in line  *LOL*  She Will Be Fine.

It’s been a difficult pregnancy for Raquel, she’s been ill most of the time.  But, with their dispositions, this baby cannot be any less than a Beautiful person and a Beautiful child.  Raquel & Neil will make WONDERFUL Parents.

Anyway… the purpose of the post…

The Baby Shower was held at the home of R&N’s next-door neighbors, and Dear Friends, Vicki & Steve.  It is a Lovely home and is Great for entertaining!  Vicki & Steve both have grown children, and they are looking forward to a baby to cuddle and spoil right next door.  Plus they love R&N, so that makes it even better!

The Party was LOVELY.  I was worried – like many Baby Showers that I have been too – that there would be an abundance of sweets and no food of substance.  Since I am on a somewhat “restricted” diet which stresses no refined or artificial sugars, a menu of all sweets is pretty tough for me.  So, just in case, I brought some fruit and veggies for me to munch on.

Was I Ever Surprised to see that, along with one small chocolate (torture for me!) cake, and some brownies (more torture!), the majority of the food was Brazilian appetizers!  And I Love Brazilian Food!

There were coxinha (“little drumsticks” – soft, fried dumplings filled with savory, shredded chicken and covered with a soft, delectable pastry coated in fine breadcrumbs), pão de queijo (small, cheese-flavored rolls), shrimp, chicken and beef empanadas and empadinhas (a folded dough or bread patty around a flavorful  stuffing – one was a cornmeal dough, the other was a flaky pastry dough ), and shrimp and chicken empadinhas (small tarts).  The food was Wonderful and the Mimosas were Yummy!

And the Party was FABULOUS!  Vicki & Steve are Fantastic Hosts, and co-hosts Ellen & Martin were Just As Gracious!  A Lovely Baby Shower for a somewhat “older” crowd”.  The decorations were tasteful and somewhat low key, but still prevalent – there was no doubt it was a baby shower.  The games were FunFunFun – with prizes like sets of travel candles and bottles of champagne!

Games We Played:
* TP Belly – guess how much TP would go around Raquel’s belly once!
* Purse Weigh – (non-traditional Baby Shower game!) weigh all the Ladies’ purses and the Heaviest won!
* M&Ms in The Bottle – guess how many M&Ms were in the BIG Baby Bottle (M&Ms were pastel pink and purple and had “Raquel” printed on them)!
* Messy Diapers – 4 diapers with messes in them… guess which CHOCOLATE BAR was each mess (totally melted and smushed Almond Joy, Reese’s, Rollos, Musketeers – Very Authentic Looking, but Yummy Smelling  *LOL*)!

I had a Wonderful time, it was a Lovely day, and I took a BUNCH of photos!

CONGRATULATIONS TO RAQUEL & NEIL!!!

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Sunday, May 17th, 2009

Spaghetti Dinner Fundraiser Event (Recap) – May 16 2009

It Was Awesome. Totally and Completely Awesome.

Mom and I arrived at “Christ The Good Shepherd” Church about 2pm and we got to participate in the “transformation”.  It was something to see, something to be a part of!

It started as a large area for receptions – stark and empty.

Then “The Team” took over… John & Mitzi R and Maria and Joseph (2 of their 3 children), Paula S and daughter Bella, Jeannie & John R, Ellen V, Laurie P, Josie & Bill E, Randy & Sharon P, Sean G, Pat S, Holly N, Stacie & Nate G, Hazer W, Vivian H, Nancy W, Russell T, Sam H…  and My Mom.

We brought out tables and chairs and tablecloths and decor…

When finished, it was Spectacular… The theme was “Italian” and the decor reflected a quaint Italian restaurant, complete with the solid red and green, and the red and white checkered tablecloths.  There were centerpieces made of the large cans of tomatoes used in the sauce – cleaned (of course) and stuffed with green, white and red tissue paper and accented with green, white and red balloons (colors of the Italian Flag).  Very Creative! The music (supplied by Laurie P) was very apropos – Frank Sinatra, Dean Martin, et al!

There were balloons Everywhere!  Red, Green and White!  And – of course – Pink and White (colors for breast cancer and bone cancer).

The meal consisted of pasta, and sauce (either Italian sausage or meatless), garlic bread, salad, tea or water and a selection of desserts (brought by the volunteers).  Each table was set with a bowl of pesto and grated cheese.  The meal could be eaten there, or there were “to-go” boxes available.  Seating was for about 100 at a time, and there were also many “to-go” boxes sold.

I had special Teeshirts made for the Volunteers, and we also had Teeshirts (to sell) with “I Helped Someone Survive Breast Cancer” on them.  Thank You to ScreamingTees for the Teeshirts!

Donna M made some Lovely crystal bead, pink ribbon cell phone dangles – they were Beautiful and sold well!

There were 10 or 12 FULL tables of items for Silent Auction!  My co-workers brought items and got gift certificates from local businesses; Audrey R made 3 gift baskets of specialized items (baking, spa and safety), and Laurie P had an Italian “Mystery Box”.  Josie E went to the Master Gardener at Mercer Botanical Gardens and got some plants donated to sell.  Nancy W donated some of her handmade pottery. Personal friends who donated to the Silent Auction were Jim H, Zach M, Donna & Mike M, Virginia & Dean O, Crystal G, Stephanie U and Ms. P.  Their gracious gifts were Much Appreciated!

Towards the end of the evening, Tom (my boss) held a Live Auction of the Silent Auction items that had not sold. That man is So Funny – and he got Everything sold!

My Dad drove in from Corpus Christi to attend – that was Awesome!  Personal Friends who attended were Carol and son, Zach; Christy & Bill; Crystal & Ryan and friend Stephanie; Julie & Mick, Donna & Mike; Donna & Joe; Jim & Sheryl and son, Preston; Tim & Dawn.

The total raised for my treatment / recovery was $8,474.50 – the Silent Auction alone raised $1,520.50!  This was more financial assistance than I had ever considered.  The spiritual and emotional support from this was immeasurable.

All this started as an idea in John R’s head, to do something for me.  From someone I work with, to do something to help me with my situation, with my financial struggle.  An idea that was supported by others within my group and grew.  For me.  Still difficult for me to comprehend that my co-workers, who have known me for only a year – and some for less, did this for me.

John’s mother came up to me and told me that this was the first time that Christ The Good Shepherd has ever allowed something like this to be done, for an individual, and I imagine for someone who was not a member of the congregation…  What an honor for me to know this, what an honor for me to know that this Church thinks so highly of John to allow this.

Thank You is just not, and never will be, enough.

May 16 2009 - Spaghetti Dinner Fundraiser

This event was "dreamed up" by my co-worker, John R. With the support of other co-workers, it grew and became something I will never forget, and am proud, and humbled, to have been associated with. "Thank You" will Never Be Enough.

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Here’s the Teeshirts we had…

 

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Saturday, May 16th, 2009

Spaghetti Dinner Fundraiser Event – May 16 2009

The Spaghetti Dinner Fundraiser is today.  John has asked each volunteer to bring a dessert, and I am making a Tres Leches cake.  I cooked it last night and got the first soaking done.  Today will be the second soaking.  Then the topping – I use a marshmallow topping with chopped dried tropical fruits…

I am also bring garlic heads to roast.  I Love roasted garlic!

I hope this event goes well… I’m excited and nervous at the same time.


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Friday, May 15th, 2009

Spaghetti Dinner Fundraiser Event – May 16 2009

The Spaghetti Dinner Fundraiser is tomorrow…

Some of the “Team” met at the church after work today to chop onions and make pesto. John’s recipe is very simple, but Yummy.  Fresh basil, olive oil, fresh garlic, Asiago cheese and walnuts.

Things were done quickly, and we didn’t stay long.

I’m excited about tomorrow, and still find it difficult to comprehend that my co-workers are doing this for me!

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