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Sunday, January 17th, 2010

UPDATE: Dad – Carotid Stenosis

Talked with my Mom today
and she brought me up to date on
my Dad’s current health situation.

They are going to the Dr on Jan 22
to discuss an angiogram
which will diagnose exactly
how much blockage there is in his
carotid artery
and then whether he will pursue carotid angioplasty or stenting

There IS a Possibility that the Doppler sonogram test that showed this extensive blockage gave a bad read, but with the dizziness that he has been experiencing, that is probably not the case. HOWEVER, the Doppler that he had 6 months ago didn’t show any issues, so Something is wrong…

Regarding his second rotator cuff surgery recovery – that seems to be doing well. He was a bit “gun shy” in doing his PT exercises since the first time (surgery) he re-injured the shoulder and required this second surgery. But Mom and the orthopedic Dr had a talk with him, so he has stepped up to the required PT now.

Praying for good news somewhere…

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Thursday, January 7th, 2010

Dad’s Health: Carotid Stenosis

My Dad has been having some dizziness when standing, went to the Dr and has been diagnosed with Carotid Artery Stenosis – clogged carotid artery. It’s pretty bad – between 60% – 70% blockage.

“Carotid artery stenosis is the narrowing of the carotid arteries. These are the main arteries in the neck that supply blood to the brain. Carotid artery stenosis, also called carotid artery disease, is a major risk factor for ischemic stroke. (This is the most common form of stroke and is usually caused by a blood clot plugging an artery.)

The narrowing is usually caused by plaque in a blood vessel. Plaque forms when cholesterol, fat and other substances build up in the inner lining of an artery. This process is called atherosclerosis.”

Dad and Mom are now discussing the options of endarterectomy versus stenting.

Mom is being pulled in many directions – Dad’s sudden health issues, her Father’s death and his financial issues…
and me and my issues.
She’s not gonna be able to do everything.
Dad is a priority
the financial issues need to be resolved
and I am 4 hours away from those matters.

Its not fair, but thats how it is.

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Monday, December 21st, 2009

Bah Humbug

I can see that this Christmas will be one of the worse of my life.

It should have been one of the best.

But it will not.

I should be with people I love
who love me

But will not.

I should be happy and joyous.

But am not.

Sunday, December 20th, 2009

Puppy Girls

This whole situation with finding someone to care for my Pups for a few days so that I can get to Corpus is very stressful. Everyone I know is gone or will be gone. For Goodness Sakes – It’s Christmas!

Wish my Dad would let me bring them, they are very housebroken and are good girls. I grew up with dogs, so having dogs just comes “natural”. Though I CAN understand how my Folks do not want the bother, responsibility, expense of pets since they are older. They have a cat who is not much trouble.

Not like dogs.

But it Would Only be for a few days, and they are housebroken, very sweet and fairly well behaved. And I would be taking care of them.

Kinda weird to realize that having no dogs in their home is more important than having me there for Christmas.

Kinda weird

Kinda hurtful.

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Saturday, December 19th, 2009

More on The Pups and Christmas

About 2am I started feeling crummy – most probably from the infusion yesterday. Took some Tylenol and went back to sleep. I’ve been feeling crummy all day. Just hanging out at home.

I’ve been trying to find someone to watch the Pups, but everyone already has plans. People make their Holiday plans long in advance. They have their own Families and their own plans. And those plans do not include watching my Puppy Girls…

I’m gonna have my bag packed Just In Case Mom & Dad decide that they can “tolerate” my 2 dogs so that I can go and be with them in Corpus for Christmas. I’ll be ready to go!

This is a very difficult Christmas for me – with everything that has happened this past year – and I would Like to be with my Folks.

I’m understanding my Folks less and less… but I am still hoping…

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Tuesday, December 15th, 2009

Prayers for Dad’s Recovery

Dad had his 2nd rotator cuff surgery today. I hope he does not push himself too hard this time and re-tear the shoulder cuz there can only be 2 surgeries, no more.

Mom will be giving him her full attention for a while, so I will need to “fend for myself”.

Prayers please…

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Thursday, October 8th, 2009

Golden Years

Today

is my Parents’

50th Wedding Anniversary.

Fifty years of Building A Life Together.

Fifty years of Loving and Laughing
Fifty years of Fussing and Bickering

Fifty years of Standing Together
Fifty years of Supporting Each Other

Fifty years of Acceptance
Fifty years of Compromise

Fifty years

For Better
For Worse

In Sickness
In Health

Fifty years of Making It Work.
cuz it Won’t Work
unless you Work At It
Together.

And They Do.

HAPPY ANNIVERSARY, Mom & Dad!!!

LOVE Y’all!!

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Sunday, June 21st, 2009

Happy Father’s Day, Dad…

Happy Father’s Day to my Dad.

Again, like Mother’s Day, this is not at all what any of us had in mind for a Father’s Day, but I am so Very Fortunate to have have you and Mom by my side me on this awful journey

I know that you & Mom are supposed to be enjoying life and being in a “good place”, not having to take care of others.  Both of y’all have given up so much in taking care of your Mother, and Mom’s Mother, and then Mom’s Father and his wife, and now me…

You Know that this I not what I wanted… it was supposed to be Clifford with me, not you & Mom… he, the one you thought of as your own son,  betrayed us all with his empty promises and shallow judgments.

How can I ever say it enough… Dad, Thank You.

Thank You for putting up with Mom being gone so much to come here to care for me, Thank You for putting up with me, Thank You for all you do, Thanks you for “being there”.

Love You, Dad!

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Sunday, May 17th, 2009

Spaghetti Dinner Fundraiser Event (Recap) – May 16 2009

It Was Awesome. Totally and Completely Awesome.

Mom and I arrived at “Christ The Good Shepherd” Church about 2pm and we got to participate in the “transformation”.  It was something to see, something to be a part of!

It started as a large area for receptions – stark and empty.

Then “The Team” took over… John & Mitzi R and Maria and Joseph (2 of their 3 children), Paula S and daughter Bella, Jeannie & John R, Ellen V, Laurie P, Josie & Bill E, Randy & Sharon P, Sean G, Pat S, Holly N, Stacie & Nate G, Hazer W, Vivian H, Nancy W, Russell T, Sam H…  and My Mom.

We brought out tables and chairs and tablecloths and decor…

When finished, it was Spectacular… The theme was “Italian” and the decor reflected a quaint Italian restaurant, complete with the solid red and green, and the red and white checkered tablecloths.  There were centerpieces made of the large cans of tomatoes used in the sauce – cleaned (of course) and stuffed with green, white and red tissue paper and accented with green, white and red balloons (colors of the Italian Flag).  Very Creative! The music (supplied by Laurie P) was very apropos – Frank Sinatra, Dean Martin, et al!

There were balloons Everywhere!  Red, Green and White!  And – of course – Pink and White (colors for breast cancer and bone cancer).

The meal consisted of pasta, and sauce (either Italian sausage or meatless), garlic bread, salad, tea or water and a selection of desserts (brought by the volunteers).  Each table was set with a bowl of pesto and grated cheese.  The meal could be eaten there, or there were “to-go” boxes available.  Seating was for about 100 at a time, and there were also many “to-go” boxes sold.

I had special Teeshirts made for the Volunteers, and we also had Teeshirts (to sell) with “I Helped Someone Survive Breast Cancer” on them.  Thank You to ScreamingTees for the Teeshirts!

Donna M made some Lovely crystal bead, pink ribbon cell phone dangles – they were Beautiful and sold well!

There were 10 or 12 FULL tables of items for Silent Auction!  My co-workers brought items and got gift certificates from local businesses; Audrey R made 3 gift baskets of specialized items (baking, spa and safety), and Laurie P had an Italian “Mystery Box”.  Josie E went to the Master Gardener at Mercer Botanical Gardens and got some plants donated to sell.  Nancy W donated some of her handmade pottery. Personal friends who donated to the Silent Auction were Jim H, Zach M, Donna & Mike M, Virginia & Dean O, Crystal G, Stephanie U and Ms. P.  Their gracious gifts were Much Appreciated!

Towards the end of the evening, Tom (my boss) held a Live Auction of the Silent Auction items that had not sold. That man is So Funny – and he got Everything sold!

My Dad drove in from Corpus Christi to attend – that was Awesome!  Personal Friends who attended were Carol and son, Zach; Christy & Bill; Crystal & Ryan and friend Stephanie; Julie & Mick, Donna & Mike; Donna & Joe; Jim & Sheryl and son, Preston; Tim & Dawn.

The total raised for my treatment / recovery was $8,474.50 – the Silent Auction alone raised $1,520.50!  This was more financial assistance than I had ever considered.  The spiritual and emotional support from this was immeasurable.

All this started as an idea in John R’s head, to do something for me.  From someone I work with, to do something to help me with my situation, with my financial struggle.  An idea that was supported by others within my group and grew.  For me.  Still difficult for me to comprehend that my co-workers, who have known me for only a year – and some for less, did this for me.

John’s mother came up to me and told me that this was the first time that Christ The Good Shepherd has ever allowed something like this to be done, for an individual, and I imagine for someone who was not a member of the congregation…  What an honor for me to know this, what an honor for me to know that this Church thinks so highly of John to allow this.

Thank You is just not, and never will be, enough.

May 16 2009 - Spaghetti Dinner Fundraiser

This event was "dreamed up" by my co-worker, John R. With the support of other co-workers, it grew and became something I will never forget, and am proud, and humbled, to have been associated with. "Thank You" will Never Be Enough.

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Here’s the Teeshirts we had…

 

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Sunday, May 10th, 2009

Happy Mother’s Day, Mom…

Happy Mother’s Day to my Mom.

Not quite what any of us had in mind for a Mother’s Day, but I am so Blessed to have have her with me.

Mom, I know this is the time of your life that you and Dad are supposed to be enjoying life, not having to take care of others.  Both of y’all have given up so much in taking care of Dad’s Mother, and your Mother, and then your Father and his wife, and now me…

This I not what I wanted… it was supposed to be Clifford with me, not you… I waited so many years for him, and we all rejoiced in the promises that he made me… but he turned out to be weak and shallow and heartless.

How can I ever say it enough… Mom, Thank You.

Thank You for driving back and forth from Corpus Christi to take care of me, Thank You for putting up with me, Thank you for all you do, Thank You for being here.

Love You, Mom!

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