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Sunday, January 24th, 2010
Robert Mosbacher Sr., a Houston oil multimillionaire who served as U.S. Commerce secretary under his close friend, President George H.W. Bush, has died at M.D. Anderson Cancer Center. He was 82.
Mosbacher died after a yearlong battle with pancreatic cancer.
Articles:
ABC 13 Local Houston
Wikipedia
NY Times
Robert Mosbacher , 1927 – 2010
Tags: Robert Mosbacher Sr.
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Sunday, January 24th, 2010
I woke this morning
with no headache
and no numbness
Yay.
Though my brain feels “sore”
My muscles and joints
don’t hurt as bad
nor does my breast
though there is still pain there.
still…
I am working on my eBay today…
Tags: aches and pains, breast pain, eBay, headache
Posted in breast cancer, Cancer, Coping, Emotions, frustration, Gene Therapy Drug Reactions, scared, Undetermined Changes | 1 Comment »
Friday, January 22nd, 2010
I’m very concerned about the current
changes in
my breast
and the
pain in
my breast
my chest
my joints
my muscles
my long bones
my headaches
I moved up my monthly blood draw and
Zometa infusion to today
Though when I went to the Center, I discovered that
I was supposed to be there last Friday…
Oops
Anyway
Hope to have the blood work back by Tuesday.
My next PET/CT scan is scheduled for
the end of February
but I left a message with Dr. DeLeon
that I want to move it to ASAP.
Hope to have that done by next
Wednesday, so we can get the
results by Friday.
Then we can see what is happening.
And make some
changes, decisions
if needed.
But for tonight
Christine called
so I am going to have dinner
with Her & Rob
then to their home
and play some games
I need the company.
Tags: aches and pain, breast changes, breast pain
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Sunday, January 17th, 2010
Talked with my Mom today
and she brought me up to date on
my Dad’s current health situation.
They are going to the Dr on Jan 22
to discuss an angiogram
which will diagnose exactly
how much blockage there is in his
carotid artery
and then whether he will pursue carotid angioplasty or stenting
There IS a Possibility that the Doppler sonogram test that showed this extensive blockage gave a bad read, but with the dizziness that he has been experiencing, that is probably not the case. HOWEVER, the Doppler that he had 6 months ago didn’t show any issues, so Something is wrong…
Regarding his second rotator cuff surgery recovery – that seems to be doing well. He was a bit “gun shy” in doing his PT exercises since the first time (surgery) he re-injured the shoulder and required this second surgery. But Mom and the orthopedic Dr had a talk with him, so he has stepped up to the required PT now.
Praying for good news somewhere…
Tags: angiogram, carotid angioplasty, carotid artery stenosis, clogged carotid artery, dad's health, stenting
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Thursday, January 7th, 2010
My Dad has been having some dizziness when standing, went to the Dr and has been diagnosed with Carotid Artery Stenosis – clogged carotid artery. It’s pretty bad – between 60% – 70% blockage.
“Carotid artery stenosis is the narrowing of the carotid arteries. These are the main arteries in the neck that supply blood to the brain. Carotid artery stenosis, also called carotid artery disease, is a major risk factor for ischemic stroke. (This is the most common form of stroke and is usually caused by a blood clot plugging an artery.)
The narrowing is usually caused by plaque in a blood vessel. Plaque forms when cholesterol, fat and other substances build up in the inner lining of an artery. This process is called atherosclerosis.”
Dad and Mom are now discussing the options of endarterectomy versus stenting.
Mom is being pulled in many directions – Dad’s sudden health issues, her Father’s death and his financial issues…
and me and my issues.
She’s not gonna be able to do everything.
Dad is a priority
the financial issues need to be resolved
and I am 4 hours away from those matters.
Its not fair, but thats how it is.
Tags: atherosclerosis, carotid artery stenosis, clogged carotid artery, dad's health, endarterectomy, stent
Posted in Dad, Emotions, Family, frustration, Mom, scared, Special People, Totally Non-cancer Related | 1 Comment »
Wednesday, January 6th, 2010
When I heard of this loss today, I just cried and cried. I did not personally know Shawn Felty, but – despite his own battle with colon cancer – he went out of his way to donate to my fund, and to offer words of encouragement. I sent a “Thank You” as I truly was grateful, but I did not keep in touch with him. I have let my battle overshadow the fact that I should keep in touch with the people who have reached out to me.
It is no excuse, it is simply fact. It is difficult when you are struggling to do everything yourself, everything by yourself, and are so tired by the end of the day, so tired by the beginning of the day, so tired to add more to the list… I will strive to do better… somehow…
“On December 13, 2009 at 4:30 pm, Shawn Felty passed peacefully surrounded by family and close friends. He was loved by many, with nearly 100 teammates, fellow actors, colleagues, cancer survivors, cancer fighters, Colondar models and friends visiting him over the last few days. For two years he battled this disease with incredible strength and extraordinary grace and he was inspiration to all who knew him. The world lost an amazing man today, but he left behind a perfect example of perseverance, fortitude and friendship.”
Shawn’s Blog: All It Takes Is Guts – please read Shawn’s writings, he Truly was an Amazing person.
Shawn Felty, 1969 – 2010
Tags: Shawn Felty
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Tuesday, January 5th, 2010
i feel like i am
Falling
Back into
A pattern of
Normalcy
Which
Concerns me
Because i
Need to be
Alert
Vigilant
No time for
Lackadaisical
Meandering
No time for
Forgetting
That I am
Fighting.
This is
Serious
My
Life.
Tags: Poetry
Posted in Cancer, frustration, scared, venting | No Comments »
Saturday, January 2nd, 2010
Once again,
I’m trying
to put on a
new face
a
mask
A smile
to
fool
myself
to
fool
the
world
this might
help
if I actually
got out of
my pajamas
but they are so comfy
and I am
so tired…
Tags: New Year, New Year 2010
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Saturday, December 26th, 2009
The “Season” is over.
The commercials on TV are
No longer
about Christmas
No longer
about the celebration
No longer
about the joy.
No more Merry Merry
Loving Family
Happy Couple
Smiling Children
It’s almost as though
a switch
was flipped
a marketing switch
was flipped.
Which is fine
with me.
Right now
This moment
In time
it is
too much for me
the pain is
too much for me
So flipp the switch
and I will cope
much easier
It will be
much easier.
Tags: Christmas 2009, Clifford Grimes, Mr. Sack
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