When I heard of this loss today, I just cried and cried. I did not personally know Shawn Felty, but – despite his own battle with colon cancer – he went out of his way to donate to my fund, and to offer words of encouragement. I sent a “Thank You” as I truly was grateful, but I did not keep in touch with him. I have let my battle overshadow the fact that I should keep in touch with the people who have reached out to me.
It is no excuse, it is simply fact. It is difficult when you are struggling to do everything yourself, everything by yourself, and are so tired by the end of the day, so tired by the beginning of the day, so tired to add more to the list… I will strive to do better… somehow…
“On December 13, 2009 at 4:30 pm, Shawn Felty passed peacefully surrounded by family and close friends. He was loved by many, with nearly 100 teammates, fellow actors, colleagues, cancer survivors, cancer fighters, Colondar models and friends visiting him over the last few days. For two years he battled this disease with incredible strength and extraordinary grace and he was inspiration to all who knew him. The world lost an amazing man today, but he left behind a perfect example of perseverance, fortitude and friendship.”
Shawn’s Blog: All It Takes Is Guts – please read Shawn’s writings, he Truly was an Amazing person.
Shawn Felty, 1969 – 2010
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Hi Denise, My name is Chris and I am Shawn’s mother. When I saw your comment on his blog I just had to send you a note. This is actually my first comment on-line since his passing. Shawn had met so many people in the last 2 years that it was impossible to keep track of everyone. Thank you for the beautiful comment you left. He was my only child and I still cannot beleve he is really gone, I ‘m not sure it will ever really sink in. Shawn & I were as close, I think, as any mother & son could be. We talked via phone or e-mail almost every day. I still stare at the phone and think it has to ring, so I can hear his voice just one more time. We loved each other sooo much. The one thing that keeps me going is that I know he is in heaven, and one day we will see each other again. I will keep you in my prayers everyday as you battle against this horrible disease. Just know that you have a new friend – me! Feel free to e-mail me anytime and send me your phone # if you feel comfortable doing that. People tell me that with time it will get easier for me, but right now I find that hard to believe. I am so glad that he donated to you’re fund so now we can talk to each other. I know he is looking down right now and smiling. I hope to hear from you soon. Chris
Chris,
What an honor to receive this comment. Thank you so much for taking the time. I too am an only child, and am very close to my mother. I believe my loss would pain her greatly, so we hope that I will ultimately win this horrible battle. I will contact you via Shawn’s site.
With Hope and Faith,
denise
Surviving…