Today was a rare day – something non-cancer related – YAY!
Today was a Baby Shower for Dear Friends, Raquel & Neil who are welcoming their first – a Baby Girl. (Raquel is from Brazil, and her name is pronounced “Ha-Kell”, and Neil is, well – Neil *LOL*)
To say that her pregnancy was a surprise is putting it mildly. They are mid/late-30′s and as long as I have known them (about 5 years) they have maintained that they did not want children. Actually, I personally believe that it was more Raquel, cuz I always thought I could see in Neil’s eyes that he would love a child, but he loved Raquel more and knew that was how she felt.
I know Raquel is concerned about the type of parent she will make, especially cuz she thinks she will be too strict. But, as I told her, children need the structure, they need the boundaries and the limits – otherwise you end up with what you see so many children have become these days – pain in the butt, spoiled brats that you don’t want to have around. That Little Girl will have Neil Wrapped Around Her Finger, so Raquel will be the one to keep them both in line *LOL* She Will Be Fine.
It’s been a difficult pregnancy for Raquel, she’s been ill most of the time. But, with their dispositions, this baby cannot be any less than a Beautiful person and a Beautiful child. Raquel & Neil will make WONDERFUL Parents.
Anyway… the purpose of the post…
The Baby Shower was held at the home of R&N’s next-door neighbors, and Dear Friends, Vicki & Steve. It is a Lovely home and is Great for entertaining! Vicki & Steve both have grown children, and they are looking forward to a baby to cuddle and spoil right next door. Plus they love R&N, so that makes it even better!
The Party was LOVELY. I was worried – like many Baby Showers that I have been too – that there would be an abundance of sweets and no food of substance. Since I am on a somewhat “restricted” diet which stresses no refined or artificial sugars, a menu of all sweets is pretty tough for me. So, just in case, I brought some fruit and veggies for me to munch on.
Was I Ever Surprised to see that, along with one small chocolate (torture for me!) cake, and some brownies (more torture!), the majority of the food was Brazilian appetizers! And I Love Brazilian Food!
There were coxinha (“little drumsticks” – soft, fried dumplings filled with savory, shredded chicken and covered with a soft, delectable pastry coated in fine breadcrumbs), pão de queijo (small, cheese-flavored rolls), shrimp, chicken and beef empanadas and empadinhas (a folded dough or bread patty around a flavorful stuffing – one was a cornmeal dough, the other was a flaky pastry dough ), and shrimp and chicken empadinhas (small tarts). The food was Wonderful and the Mimosas were Yummy!
And the Party was FABULOUS! Vicki & Steve are Fantastic Hosts, and co-hosts Ellen & Martin were Just As Gracious! A Lovely Baby Shower for a somewhat “older” crowd”. The decorations were tasteful and somewhat low key, but still prevalent – there was no doubt it was a baby shower. The games were FunFunFun – with prizes like sets of travel candles and bottles of champagne!
Games We Played:
* TP Belly – guess how much TP would go around Raquel’s belly once!
* Purse Weigh – (non-traditional Baby Shower game!) weigh all the Ladies’ purses and the Heaviest won!
* M&Ms in The Bottle – guess how many M&Ms were in the BIG Baby Bottle (M&Ms were pastel pink and purple and had “Raquel” printed on them)!
* Messy Diapers – 4 diapers with messes in them… guess which CHOCOLATE BAR was each mess (totally melted and smushed Almond Joy, Reese’s, Rollos, Musketeers – Very Authentic Looking, but Yummy Smelling *LOL*)!
I had a Wonderful time, it was a Lovely day, and I took a BUNCH of photos!
CONGRATULATIONS TO RAQUEL & NEIL!!!
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It’s Tough writing this Blog, each letter I type is a reminder of my situation and the fight I am fighting, the fight I do Not want to be a part of, but I am… the fight that I Hope to win, the fight which I Might loose.
A fight in which I am not alone, yet I am very alone.
Sometimes it would be easier to forget and simply retreat into a cocoon of denial… but I can’t, I Need to write, I Need to feel that I am Somehow making a difference with my fight.
I Hope there are people who are reading this Blog, I have people tell me that they are, but I really don’t know. I find it interesting to note those “friends” who have pulled away since my diagnosis… or those who “can’t bring themselves to read” my Blog because it’s “too difficult for them”. Well, lemme tell you just how difficult this is for Me. I’ll go through this nightmare without you.
I want to Thank those who have left comments… my Real Life Friends who stop by and take a few moments to leave me words of encouragement – Christy W, Crystal G, Amber H, Marianne M, Katherine R… people who I have met via online groups – Bridgette M… people who I never met, but who have gone out of their way to leave me a few words – Gina M, Karin W… and All the people who have donated money for my treatment and recovery and left comments of encouragement with their donations… yes, the money helps ease my financial stress, but it’s Not just about the money, it’s about the Comfort and Power of Prayer.
You all Have No Idea what your support means to me. At this time, when it’s So Very Tough for me, I cherish each and every word you share with me. They bring me Much Comfort.
When I come up here to write, and there are no new comments – which is more often than not – I seek out your words and re–read them for comfort. If they were paper they would be tattered from use, tear-stained and imprinted with my gratitude…
Thank You.
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